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Was It All A Lie?
This is the short story I published as a video, which refers to a period in 2018 during the relationship. @LifeChangePlans The 27th of August 2021 was the first anniversary of the abrupt termination of my 11-year relationship with a man that I attracted into my life...
Three D’s In Relationship Endings
I have experienced what I term three Ds in relationship endings 1. Divorce 2. Death of my partner 3. Discard as in the abrupt termination of the relationship by the other person. So today I want to talk about these three D's relationship endings. Divorce I had been...
Betrayal Is A Form of Emotional Abuse
Betrayal, a form of emotional abuse, can cause PTSD. Symptoms such as flashbacks, nightmares & impaired sleeping, depression, anxiety, brain fog, distrust, dissociation, are common. Betrayed partners often feel as if their reality has been shaken to its core.—...
You want to win at all costs.
Open letter to the Ex. You want to win at all costs. Dear Ex But those costs are very high, not just monetary, but the cost of time, energy, and emotional welfare. Stress is a known precursor to illness and that can be minor ailments to major forms of...
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month
Why do women stay in a marriage or relationship that is toxic or abusive? They love their partner. They make excuses, he’s in pain, he’s frustrated, he’s got a lot of stress, his diabetic illness and low blood sugar cause him to say those hurtful things. They...
Writing As A Way To Heal
Today is exactly two years from the date that a former partner walked away from the relationship.I wrote my story and self-published my book in June 2022."Post Separation Abuse. Betrayal & Abandonment, What Type Of Man?" Readers will discover 2 Resources for...
Infidelity and Betrayal
A memory from January 2018. My partner had just confessed his infidelity and betrayal on December 27th. He was apparently entitled to carry on an affair with another woman he had started seeing again in the UK. He called her "his Wednesday girl" because obviously, she...
Hidden Emotional Abuse
People do not understand #coercivecontrol it is power and control, manipulation and mind games, emotional and psychological abuse. It is what I term hidden emotional abuse. Often the victim does not realise they have been in an emotionally abusive marriage or...
Post-Separation Legal Conflict
No, It's Not Legal Conflict; It's Legal Intimidation or Litigation Abuses. Happy New Year, Loren On January 4th, 2022, I received an email from my former partner. He had a potential buyer who wanted to view the property and asked me if I would accommodate a viewing. ...
Letter To The Other Woman.
This is an extract from my first self-published book. Post Separation Abuse. Betrayal & Abandonment, What Type Of Man?In my book, I write "Letters to the Other Women" this is one of the letters I wrote to one of Philip's ex-wives after she makes contact in January...
Nine Ways Narcissists Can Punish You
Punishment is a classic part of narcissistic relationships. They punish you if they think you criticize them, they punish you if you express a need, they punish you if you question their inappropriate behaviour, and they punish you if you try to give them...
Writing As A Way To Heal
My Letters to the Ex Dear Phillip, What do you want? I listened to everything you told me on that afternoon of September 15th 2020. Yes, you saw a “Go Fund Page” I had written, that our friend shared on her Facebook profile…. Perhaps a decision made from fear is...
Review: Dream Builder Program.
What is the DreamBuilder Program? The DreamBuilder Program is a 12-week online program in which bestselling author Mary Morrissey guides members through the proven, reliable and repeatable steps to creating a life they truly love living. The program focuses on...
Narcissists Are Cowards My Top Five Reasons Why.
Narcissists will claim to be one of three things they will claim they are the hero the victim or the martyr or some combination of all three. However, the truth of the matter is they are none of those things. The reality is that narcissists are actually cowards...
Why I started to write my first book
How I got involved in writing a chapter for “Faces Of Mental Illness.” my experience of grief & anxiety the reason for writing my first book.