by Loren Keeling | May 19, 2026 | Survivor Resources
A Woman’s Guide to Avoiding Financial Poverty Over 45. The Unspoken Reality of Midlife Transitions Midlife was once promised to be your era of stability, a hard-earned autumn of emotional safety nets and the harvest of long-term labour. But for an exploding number of...
by Loren Keeling | May 11, 2026 | Trauma Healing
7 Lessons for Reclaiming Your Life 1. The Myth of the “Clean Break” Many survivors walk away from a toxic relationship expecting a “clean break.” You’ve signed the papers and moved out, yet the chaos hasn’t stopped. If you feel like you...
by Loren Keeling | May 7, 2026 | Survivor Resources
DARVO – A Vital Tool When I published my first book, What Type of Man?, I dedicated a chapter to “Five Ways To Recover and Heal” and introduced the term DARVO (Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender). A term coined by Jennifer Freyd in the...
by Loren Keeling | Apr 27, 2026 | Trauma Healing
6 Startling Truths About Post-Separation Abuse and the Body’s Breaking Point. 1. The Fog of the “Discard” and the Reality of Institutional Betrayal For many, the end of a relationship is expected to bring a sense of relief, a hard-won peace. However, for...
by Loren Keeling | Apr 6, 2026 | Trauma Healing
Betrayal, Lying and Emotional Abuse When we discover a partner has been lying and cheating or living a secret life, our first instinct is often to look for “relationship” solutions. We ask what went wrong in the marriage or how we can communicate better....
by Loren Keeling | Mar 30, 2026 | Toxic Relationships
How do you start to rebuild yourself when everything falls apart at the same time? Your relationship has ended abruptly after you are told they have a new love in their life (they cheated on you more than once), leaving you in shock.You have no job and no business...
by Loren Keeling | Mar 23, 2026 | Toxic Relationships
The Path to True Transformation You’ve finally done it. You’ve packed the bags, signed the papers, or walked out the door. You were told that leaving was the hardest part. You expected a sense of relief, a “clean break”, where the chaos would finally...
by Loren Keeling | Mar 16, 2026 | Toxic Relationships
5 Surprising Truths About Surviving Narcissistic Abuse Introduction: The Ghost in the Mirror Have you ever looked in the mirror and felt like you were watching a stranger play a scripted role, while your real self stayed hidden deep underground? For many women over...
by Loren Keeling | Mar 16, 2026 | Toxic Relationships
This is the short story I published as a video, which refers to a period in 2018 during the relationship. @LifeChangePlans The 27th of August 2021 was the first anniversary of the abrupt termination of my 11-year relationship with a man that I attracted into my life...
by almonline | Mar 11, 2026 | Book Reviews
My Education in Surviving Post-Separation Abuse The Turning Point Between 2020 and 2026, I faced a reality I didn’t have the language for: legal abuse, false allegations, and a ‘manipulationship’ that nearly cost me everything. Starting over at 65,...
