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How Not To End A Relationship
Things A Narcissist Does At The End Of A Relationship 1. Find cruel and heartless ways to break things off. They have a total disrespect and disregard for your feelings and emotional wellbeing. You are of no importance. Narcissists believe they matter more than other...
Why do I choose Forgiveness
Why do I choose Forgiveness when the other person is not sorry and will never apologise for doing wrong? https://youtu.be/89hpIs-1uBI I felt I had regained my freedom When the relationship ended the way it did, I felt I had regained my freedom. But I also felt hurt...
First Anniversary of Abrupt Discard
The 27th of August 2021 was the first anniversary of the abrupt termination of my 11-year relationship. A man, that I attracted into my life in 2009. On the evening of August 27th 2020, I remember that I talked about all of my past experiences, my family life, my...
Why did my ex behave the way he did?
Ex tells me "You can't negotiate a gift" but not in a nice way. Why did my ex behave the way he did? This video was recorded on the 3rd of November 2020. https://youtu.be/4cTLS8PhKeE I was in a place of grieving, in shock from how my partner of the past eleven years...
Verbal Abuse in Relationships
Verbal abuse is a type of psychological/mental abuse that involves the use of oral language, gestured language, and written language directed to a victim. Verbal abuse can include the act of harassing, labelling, insulting, scolding, rebuking, excessive yelling...
Interviewed on Lyns Podcast Hearts Entwined
I was interviewed a few weeks ago by Lyn Smith for her Podcast Hearts Entwined. Here I talk to Lyn about how I made the decision to write my story. My reason why is to raise awareness on the hidden emotional abuse in relationships. Also, the impact that can have on...
You Are Not A Victim: You’re a Wounded Warrior
Reclaim Your Power After Experiencing Abuse In A Relationship. People get stuck in victimhood and pain after experiencing domestic abuse and trauma. Many abuse survivors don’t share their stories. Either they tried, and no one believed them, or the fear of...
Who is the Real Victim?
HINT It’s not the Narcissist! How you can tell who the real victim was after the relationship with the Narcissist ends. I don't want to be the victim, I was the recipient of emotional abuse from a partner that I loved. That was my only crime, falling in love...
The Cycle of Narcissistic Abuse
‘Did my childhood have anything to do with me attracting relationships with elements of narcissistic abuse? Have you ever asked yourself this question? After three main long term relationships, non of which were really "healthy" or "loving". I am on a "mission of...
Personal Relationships Healthy or Toxic?
Your personal relationships are vital to your happiness. You do not want to fill your life with hate, negativity and people that bring you down. Being in a toxic relationship with a "serial adulterer" a "prolific cheater" or a person who wants to lead a "double...
Are you screwed? Is your relationship dragging you down?
Relationships are supposed to build you up, be super supportive, and make you a better person. So it can really, suck when you realize your relationship is dragging you down. It can also really take you by surprise.Healthy, happy relationships are where both partners...
How to put the stress behind you
How to put the stress of the world behind you Stress is something that you need to keep out of your life. However, keeping a stress-free life is not easy. You need to know that having too much stress can only cause you trouble later on. You need to realize that stress...
Channelling your inner energy
Channelling your inner energy using the law of attraction, gives you the confidence that you need to realise it is going to happen for you.
7 Stages To Rebuild Your Relationship
If you want to rebuild your relationship, let's look at the question “Why is he angry at me when he is the one who cheated?” When you are emotional, tearful, hurt and wounded, a partner’s words of blame are self-serving and selfish. Either he or she is trying to get...
Live the Imaginative Life
Certain words have several connotations. “Imagination” is such a word. People use this word to convey various ideas; some of them are directly opposed to one another. For example, we may ask a person to ‘use their imagination’ when we think their current viewpoint...