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Change Your Thinking And It Will Change Your Life
Courts in Spain And My Experiences
Local Courts The first level court “Juzgados de Primera” is the local court it can take 6 to 18 months for a case to be heard. In the first pretrial “Audencia Previa” the barristers discuss points of law. It can take another 12 to 18 months for the main hearing...
Discover the 5 Habits of Highly Successful People
The Power of Mindset for Life Change Introduction - Highly successful people Success is not merely the outcome of luck or circumstance; it is often the result of intentional habits and a mindset geared towards growth and achievement. Highly successful people share...
How to Develop a Positive Money Mindset
Introduction: Positive Money Mindset The Power of Wealth Affirmations Money plays a significant role in our lives, influencing our choices, opportunities, and overall well-being. However, our attitudes and beliefs about money often dictate our financial success....
Which Solicitor gave the best advice?
Gaps in the Laws or misogynistic social beliefs, discrimination and a broken system. Seeking legal advice. The first piece of information that you might give to a woman who has disclosed to you that they have been threatened, intimidated, humiliated and verbally...
Post Separation Experiences.
Story time. My Post Separation experiences After the ex-partner had informed me that he would pay for "transformational coaching" with the same ex-GP Hypnotherapist NLP practitioner that he had seen just the weekend before. I was questioning WHY? He had a plan. Told...
You lose Yourself
In today's article, I have reproduced two statements that might resonate with anyone who has been through a narcissistic or controlling abusive relationship. The first article is about what you can lose and the second article is about how a man treats a woman....
Red Flags – What Type Of Man?
I started out in my last relationship as an independent businesswoman. Then I moved to Spain into what was meant to be our retirement home together. 2016 I sold out my UK business to start over with a different type of business. He was still working his business and...
Narcissistic Behaviours
Narcissistic abuse and behaviours appear in many forms. Cheating, leading a double life, manipulation, grooming, verbal abuse, anger outbursts, humiliation, belittling comments. Financial abuse, either they scroungers and get you into debt, or they use money as a...
The Spanish Retirement Dream.
A New Home In The Sun 2015 - 2016 So here I was in July of 2016, living in the beautiful countryside in a lovely house that we had furnished together, looking forward to retirement and at last being together. Eight years in a relationship with him, and for all of...
A bombshell is dropped. 27th August 2020
I’m collateral damage, unfortunately. A chapter from my first book. This is how the relationship ended just three days after he returned to Spain. After a weekend in which he had spent two days in a "Breakthrough Transformation Coaching" with an NLP, Hypnotherapist...
New Relationship – What Type Of Man?
After the death of my partner in December 2006, I was single and dated for a couple of years. Then in January 2009, I made a decision that I wanted another long-term relationship. What did I write down for my future? For a long time, and since I studied a lot of...
7 Signs of a Covert Narcissist
First, let's look at what are the traits of a Covert Narcissist.A covert or introverted narcissist lacks empathy and is hypersensitive to criticism but does not display the outward sense of self-importance found in overt narcissists. Covert narcissists lack confidence...
Not another high-conflict divorce or separation
It is not just another high-conflict divorce or separation. There are people who can ruin your life. They will destroy your reputation, your self-esteem or your career. High-conflict personalities will think nothing of leaving you emotionally and financially...
It’s Post Separation Legal Abuse Not Conflict.
Abusers torment their exes through the courts in a form of coercive control post-separation. Separating from a domestic abuser may not stop the abuse. Domestic abusers will vengefully harm and seek to punish their ex-spouse or partner, they want to win at all costs...
Is financial abuse a form of emotional abuse?
“Financial abuse is a form of family violence, and can be present with other forms of abuse, like physical or emotional abuse, but can also be present without these other behaviours.” WomenandMoney.org Hidden Abuse This type of abuse can take many forms, it can be a...