Was It All A Lie?

Was It All A Lie?

This is the short story I published as a video, which refers to a period in 2018 during the relationship. @LifeChangePlans The 27th of August 2021 was the first anniversary of the abrupt termination of my 11-year relationship with a man that I attracted into my life...
Three D’s In Relationship Endings

Three D’s In Relationship Endings

I have experienced what I term three Ds in relationship endings 1. Divorce 2. Death of my partner 3. Discard as in the abrupt termination of the relationship by the other person. So today I want to talk about these three D’s relationship endings. Divorce I had...
Betrayal Is A Form of Emotional Abuse

Betrayal Is A Form of Emotional Abuse

Betrayal, a form of emotional abuse, can cause PTSD. Symptoms such as flashbacks, nightmares & impaired sleeping, depression, anxiety, brain fog, distrust, dissociation, are common. Betrayed partners often feel as if their reality has been shaken to its core.—...
You want to win at all costs. 

You want to win at all costs. 

Open letter to the Ex. You want to win at all costs.  Dear Ex But those costs are very high, not just monetary, but the cost of time, energy, and emotional welfare. Stress is a known precursor to illness and that can be minor ailments to major forms of...
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

Why do women stay in a marriage or relationship that is toxic or abusive? They love their partner. They make excuses, he’s in pain, he’s frustrated, he’s got a lot of stress, his diabetic illness and low blood sugar cause him to say those hurtful things.  They...
Writing As A Way To Heal

Writing As A Way To Heal

Today is exactly two years from the date that a former partner walked away from the relationship.I wrote my story and self-published my book in June 2022.”Post Separation Abuse. Betrayal & Abandonment, What Type Of Man?” Readers will discover 2...
Infidelity and Betrayal

Infidelity and Betrayal

A memory from January 2018. My partner had just confessed his infidelity and betrayal on December 27th. He was apparently entitled to carry on an affair with another woman he had started seeing again in the UK. He called her “his Wednesday girl” because...
Hidden Emotional Abuse

Hidden Emotional Abuse

People do not understand #coercivecontrol it is power and control, manipulation and mind games, emotional and psychological abuse. It is what I term hidden emotional abuse. Often the victim does not realise they have been in an emotionally abusive marriage or...