Blog Articles
Change Your Thinking And It Will Change Your Life
Will The Real Victim Please Stand Up?
How can professionals tell who is the real victim after a relationship with the Narcissist ends? Let me start by taking a quote from Dr Ramani. QUOTE: I believe all domestic abusers are narcissistic. Without exception. The capacity to tell someone, I love you, I'm...
Improving Your Life Through Positive Thinking
Can changing your thinking change your life? Introduction: The Power of Thought. This age-old question has intrigued philosophers, psychologists, and personal development experts for centuries. The idea that our thoughts shape our reality is not a new one, but its...
Domestic Abuse / Gender Violence
Understanding Intimate Partner Abuse. Today I am writing about a subject that many people do not usually read about until the headlines in the media declare another senseless loss of life. So today I am covering the definitions of gender violence and domestic abuse...
How do you determine what path you will follow?
Living your life to the best, and how you determine what path you will follow. Choosing the right path for life is not always easy. We may have problems that we need to consider and figure out what will work best for us in all of these situations. We have to take a...
Post-Separation Financial Abuse.
Domestic Abuse Act 2021 in the UK Understanding and combating domestic abuse, the United Kingdom has taken a significant stride with the implementation of the Domestic Abuse Act 2021. Most people think of domestic abuse as physical violence. In fact section 76 Serious...
Mindgames, Manipulations and Gaslighting.
So I learned about the #cycleofabuse #lovebomb #devaluation #discard #hoover. Covert narcissists can have friendships with many ex-girlfriends. I had no idea about narcissistic traits or lousy behaviour (abuse) until post-separation. I discovered post-separation that...
Why Was He Angry At Me?
What did I do Wrong? This article is a chapter from my first self-published book. Post-Separation Abuse. Betrayal and Abandonment, What Type Of Man? Why was he angry is something I asked myself over and over again. I blamed myself for what happened. When I started...
The Power of the Self-Fulfilling Prophecy
Introduction The human mind is a complex web of thoughts, emotions, and perceptions that shape our experiences and interactions with the world. One fascinating phenomenon that psychologists have studied extensively is the self-fulfilling prophecy. In this article, we...
Betrayal and discovery of a double life.
Oprah interviews a family, and the wife has written a book "Back From Betrayal" it's an eye-opener. How infidelity and betrayal can cause so much hurt in the family unit. #LeadingADoubleLife #Betrayal #serialadulterer It is obvious when the adult son breaks down...
Courts in Spain And My Experiences
Local Courts The first level court “Juzgados de Primera” is the local court it can take 6 to 18 months for a case to be heard. In the first pretrial “Audencia Previa” the barristers discuss points of law. It can take another 12 to 18 months for the main hearing...
Discover the 5 Habits of Highly Successful People
The Power of Mindset for Life Change Introduction - Highly successful people Success is not merely the outcome of luck or circumstance; it is often the result of intentional habits and a mindset geared towards growth and achievement. Highly successful people share...
How to Develop a Positive Money Mindset
Introduction: Positive Money Mindset The Power of Wealth Affirmations Money plays a significant role in our lives, influencing our choices, opportunities, and overall well-being. However, our attitudes and beliefs about money often dictate our financial success....
Which Solicitor gave the best advice?
Gaps in the Laws or misogynistic social beliefs, discrimination and a broken system. Seeking legal advice. The first piece of information that you might give to a woman who has disclosed to you that they have been threatened, intimidated, humiliated and verbally...
Post Separation Experiences.
Story time. My Post Separation experiences After the ex-partner had informed me that he would pay for "transformational coaching" with the same ex-GP Hypnotherapist NLP practitioner that he had seen just the weekend before. I was questioning WHY? He had a plan. Told...
You lose Yourself
In today's article, I have reproduced two statements that might resonate with anyone who has been through a narcissistic or controlling abusive relationship. The first article is about what you can lose and the second article is about how a man treats a woman....