Discarded or Abandoned Abruptly.

Discarded or Abandoned Abruptly.

A man cheating repeatedly does not value “commitment”. They tend to have a life littered with women they have discarded or abandoned. A mature person would feel guilt and shame. They would stop themselves from continuing or going forward with any mistake they made in...
How Not To End A Relationship

How Not To End A Relationship

Things A Narcissist Does At The End Of A Relationship 1. Find cruel and heartless ways to break things off. They have a total disrespect and disregard for your feelings and emotional wellbeing. You are of no importance. Narcissists believe they matter more than other...
Why do I choose Forgiveness

Why do I choose Forgiveness

Why do I choose Forgiveness when the other person is not sorry and will never apologise for doing wrong? I felt I had regained my freedom When the relationship ended the way it did, I felt I had regained my freedom. But I also felt hurt misled, used, mistreated by...
First Anniversary of Abrupt Discard

First Anniversary of Abrupt Discard

The 27th of August 2021 was the first anniversary of the abrupt termination of my 11-year relationship. A man, that I attracted into my life in 2009. On the evening of August 27th 2020, I remember that I talked about all of my past experiences, my family life, my...
Verbal Abuse in Relationships

Verbal Abuse in Relationships

Verbal abuse is a type of psychological/mental abuse that involves the use of oral language, gestured language, and written language directed to a victim. Verbal abuse can include the act of harassing, labelling, insulting, scolding, rebuking, excessive yelling...
Who is the Real Victim?

Who is the Real Victim?

HINT It’s not the Narcissist! How you can tell who the real victim was after the relationship with the Narcissist ends. I don’t want to be the victim, I was the recipient of emotional abuse from a partner that I loved.  That was my only crime, falling in...
The Cycle of Narcissistic Abuse

The Cycle of Narcissistic Abuse

‘Did my childhood have anything to do with me attracting relationships with elements of narcissistic abuse? Have you ever asked yourself this question? After three main long term relationships, non of which were really “healthy” or “loving”. I...