Infidelity and Betrayal

Infidelity and Betrayal

A memory from January 2018. My partner had just confessed his infidelity and betrayal on December 27th. He was apparently entitled to carry on an affair with another woman he had started seeing again in the UK. He called her “his Wednesday girl” because...
Hidden Emotional Abuse

Hidden Emotional Abuse

People do not understand #coercivecontrol it is power and control, manipulation and mind games, emotional and psychological abuse. It is what I term hidden emotional abuse. Often the victim does not realise they have been in an emotionally abusive marriage or...
Post-Separation Legal Conflict

Post-Separation Legal Conflict

No, It’s Not Legal Conflict; It’s Legal Intimidation or Litigation Abuses. Happy New Year, Loren On January 4th, 2022, I received an email from my former partner. He had a potential buyer who wanted to view the property and asked me if I would accommodate...
Letter To The Other Woman.

Letter To The Other Woman.

This is an extract from my first self-published book. Post Separation Abuse. Betrayal & Abandonment, What Type Of Man?In my book, I write “Letters to the Other Women” this is one of the letters I wrote to one of Philip’s ex-wives after she makes...
Nine Ways Narcissists Can Punish You

Nine Ways Narcissists Can Punish You

Punishment is a classic part of narcissistic relationships.  They punish you if they think you criticize them, they punish you if you express a need, they punish you if you question their inappropriate behaviour, and they punish you if you try to give them...