by Loren Keeling | Dec 8, 2025 | Human Rights of Women
Strategic Lawsuits Against Public Participation (SLAPPs) The ability to speak out against injustice is fundamental to a free and equitable society. Yet, for many women, raising their voice against abuse, misconduct, or corruption is met with a chilling legal...
by Loren Keeling | Dec 1, 2025 | Mindset
Emotional Energy Spiral: How to Move Up the Emotional Scale After Narcissistic Abuse Trauma. In the aftermath of deep emotional trauma—especially following narcissistic or emotional abuse—it’s common to feel perpetually stuck in low-vibration emotions. You might know...
by Loren Keeling | Nov 24, 2025 | Toxic Relationships
6 Surprising Legal Truths About Your Financial Rights After a Breakup Many long-term, unmarried couples building a life together in Spain operate under a dangerous assumption: that after enough time, their living together relationship legally transforms into a...
by Loren Keeling | Nov 17, 2025 | Toxic Relationships
Intro: When “The End” is Only the Beginning Most of us view the end of a relationship as a painful but definitive conclusion. However, a “discard” is not a normal relationship break-up. A normal break-up is a chapter closing, a period of grief...
by Loren Keeling | Nov 10, 2025 | Toxic Relationships
Why Your Ex’s Court Tactics are Post-Separation Abuse Post-separation Abuse in Family Court If you are a survivor of abuse in a relationship, the separation may feel like just the beginning of the battle—not the end. You went to the family court seeking...
by Loren Keeling | Nov 3, 2025 | Toxic Relationships
The Aftermath After five years of legal intimidation, litigation abuses and a situation of extreme emotional abuse and psychological harm. I want to revisit the betrayal, the emotional impact and look at a hypothetical scenario of Flipping the Script on Infidelity and...
by Loren Keeling | Oct 20, 2025 | Human Rights of Women
DVAM 2025 UK Serious Crimes Act and Spain 1/2004, comprehensive protection measures. As October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I thought I would look at UK and Spanish laws on violence against women. It has now been five years this month that I was advised by...
by Loren Keeling | Oct 13, 2025 | Healthy Relationships, Law of Attraction
Why Your Dream Partner Checklist Needs an Upgrade. The Law of Attraction is powerful. You’ve heard the advice: define what you want, write it down, visualise it, and you’ll attract it. I tried this myself back in 2009. I wrote out my list, starting with the...
by Loren Keeling | Oct 6, 2025 | Toxic Relationships
My lived experience. I now call the abrupt termination of the relationship a four-sentence discard speech. Here are the words he used to end a relationship that spanned eleven years. In fact he denied that we had a relationship. I now do not want to refer to it as a...
by Loren Keeling | Sep 29, 2025 | Human Rights of Women
The court hearing June 10th 2022, is the day of the verbal hearing in the Civil Court in Cartagena. I turn up at the court a little early. I’m wearing a long, blue, sleeveless silk dress with a long jacket to match. On entering the courthouse, there is police...
