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Highlighting Gaps In The Laws That Fail Women
Gaps In The Laws Between Property Law and Gender Based Violence of Economic Abuse. How women are failed by the Justice System that discriminates against them and operates on misogyny and bias. Spanish Law and Psychological Abuse Ley Orgánica 1/2004, Spain's...
Inspired by a speech from Madonna.
Inspiration. I stand before you as a disposable woman. Oh, I mean, as a female English foreigner in Spain, who spent years in a non-married relationship with a man I had trusted and unfortunately discovered he was not trustworthy. To the Guardia Civil. Thank you for...
What is a discard in a relationship ending?
Termination of a relationship. A "discard" in the context of a relationship breakup refers to a sudden, abrupt, and often unexplained ending, where one partner is abruptly cut off with little to no communication or closure. It's characterized by a lack of empathy,...
No Divorce Required
At the end of non-married relationships couples can normally end things amicably without the need to litigate. This usually means discussions about how each party will be able to start over again. Women are normally more inclined to have been in the “housewife,...
The Real Reasons Survivors Publish Their Stories.
Publishing your journey through domestic abuse, while incredibly difficult, often stems from a motivation that goes far beyond simply "telling a story." Here are some of the real reasons behind this courageous act: Breaking the Silence and Stigma: Domestic abuse...
Understanding Coercive Control: Insights from Two Expert Talks
Coercive Control I have chosen two videos in this article that cover “Coercive Control”. Both are TEDx talks. What is coercive control? Domestic abuse isn't always physical. Coercive control is an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation, intimidation...
Why Female Survivors of Domestic Abuse or Gender-Based Violence Have Difficulty in Stabilising Financial Security
Introduction Financial independence is one of the most critical yet most challenging milestones for women recovering from domestic abuse or gender-based violence. Beyond the physical and emotional scars, survivors often face long-lasting economic consequences that...
Inside the Mind of a Serial Cheater
Introduction.
As a woman who saw the devastation of a broken family home as a child, I can tell you that the impact of infidelity goes further than the spouse who discovers the affair. Serial cheating is different from a one-time affair. In this article, I want to explore the psychological traits of serial cheaters. Look at the common justifications they use to tell themselves they are entitled. The profound emotional toll on the betrayed partner, and also from my own lived experience. Is a serial cheater incapable of loyalty, or are they trapped in a cycle they don’t understand?
What does betrayal do to a person?
No matter how strong we are, betrayal hurts; the effects of betrayal can include shock, loss and grief, damaged self-esteem, and anger.
Are You Screwed ? Is Your Relationship Dragging You Down?
Relationships are supposed to build you up, be super supportive, and make you a better person. So it can really, suck when you realize your relationship is dragging you down. It can also really take you by surprise. Healthy, happy relationships are where both partners...
Separating from a Domestic Abuser May Not Stop the Abuse
Abuse Doesn’t End With Separation Leaving an abusive relationship is often seen as the final step to freedom, but for many survivors, the abuse doesn’t end with separation. In fact, it can escalate, taking on new and insidious forms that continue to inflict emotional,...
Key Legal Issues I Should Be Able to Address.
Unfortunately, The Barriers To Justice Are Huge. Key Legal Issues 1. Violation of Due Process & Constitutional Rights – The fact that I was interviewed without legal representation is a direct violation of Spanish constitutional law. Additionally, the criminal...
What are the red flags of a toxic partner?
Red Flags: How to Recognize the Warning Signs Before It’s Too Late Unveiling the Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse Introduction: In the complex dynamic of relationships, it’s crucial to pay attention to your intuitive feelings and emotions and be aware of potential red...
The Links Between Psychological and Economic Abuse.
Today, I want to highlight my lived experience of psychological and economic Abuse. against the Evaluation Report of GREVIO,
The Trauma of Being Falsely Accused
My Journey Through False Allegations and Post-Separation Abuse Being falsely accused can shatter a person’s sense of self, creating waves of emotional, mental, and even physical trauma that linger for years. I know this all too well. As an author who dared to share...