Blog Created by A Survivor
This blog website was created in October 2020 while the author was going through huge grief, shock of what she now refers to as a “discard”. Her partner delivered a four-sentence discard speech and terminated their year eleven relationship. The author now understands that she was never in a relationship because it was a manipulationship from the very start. This post has been updated in February 2026 to reflect how her focus shifted from the start of building the blog and attempting to write articles around the law of attraction and personal growth, while at the same time, she was under attack by her previous partner. Over the last five years, the articles reflected her lived experience and also the research she discovered along the way.
Now, as a survivor of post-separation legal intimidation and litigation abuses, this website and her published books form part of a non-profit project where royalties, commissions, and revenue from articles, videos, slogan t-shirts and other self-care slogan merchandise will go into the non-profit. The aim is to set up a non-profit with a global audience to support women worldwide with emotional well-being and educational articles and videos, with hopes to empower women to overcome the challenges of economic abuse and injustice.
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The Original Article from October 2020.
I’m sharing this article with you from one of my mentors, whom I tune into for inspiration. The article is from Bob Proctor of the Proctor Gallagher Institute. Bob teaches some very powerful techniques on transformation.
Hope you enjoy reading this article as much as I did.
Can you guess who said this?
The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.
It was Albert Einstein
One would assume that Einstein favored logic over intuition, yet the reverse is true.
Einstein understood that intuition is a form of intelligence that goes beyond the rational mind. It eavesdrops on the mind of the universe, giving us access to infinite possibilities.
A universal gift
Many people believe that only women have intuition. However, there is absolutely no basis or foundation for this belief. Every one of us has been gifted with an intuitive factor.
When you and I tap into our intuitive mind, we connect to the perfect, unlimited side of ourselves, the deep spiritual essence of who we are. And that allows us to accomplish uncommon things.
For example, highly effective salespeople, police detectives, and lawyers have a highly-developed intuitive factor. They stand out in their respective fields because they’ve trained themselves to pick up on people’s energy instead of just hearing what they’re saying.
It’s likely that, at least once in your lifetime, you’ve experienced the magical power of your intuition…
Think of a time when someone looked into your eyes and told you they loved you or promised they were going to do something, and you knew they were lying.
Or a time you sensed something was wrong with a loved one, but they assured you everything was fine. However, later you found out that the person was, in fact, facing a serious problem.
It was your intuitive factor that enabled you to pick up those unspoken messages.
Another myth about intuition
You often hear people say that intuition is a sixth sense. They are wrong. Intuition is not a sense at all; it’s a mental faculty that enables us to tune into the universe’s energy by sensing vibrations.
For example, you can use it to “read” other people since everyone is a mass of energy vibrating at a remarkably high speed. Your intuitive factor will pick up vibrations coming from a person.
Quite often, if you have a close relationship with someone, you will pick up what they are thinking, even before they verbally express it to you.
You don’t have to take my word for it—test it for yourself. Over the next week, whenever you’re with a person with whom you have built an excellent rapport, and you feel they are thinking about something in particular, tell them what you think and listen to their feedback.
Be aware that a person could be saying one thing and yet thinking another. However, vibrations never lie. With practice, you will eventually get to the point where you will pay closer attention to the vibrations you are receiving rather than the words you are hearing.
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First YouTube Channel
The author also created a YouTube Channel in April 2021 – at that point, she was hopeful that she would be able to start a new life in Spain and had hired a mediation company in the UK to assist with “negotiations” with the ex-partner, who had originally caused her so much trauma. Already failed by the Spanish justice system when an English-speaking Spanish solicitor had refused to follow her request to write to the other solicitor (who had been our joint solicitor). Instead, the advice she followed was to make a complaint of gender violence to the Guardia Civil. Something she didn‘t want to do. Being in shock, grief, suffering trauma, fear and uncertainty is not a good place to be making important decisions. The author now understands all of the points that the system failed. By March 2021, the gender violence complaint had been dismissed, and what followed was five years of post-separation abuse.
The focus of the channel was positive affirmations. These were 5-minute videos using a platform lumen5.com, that she found was free to use.
This video was one of the first that was produced. The author used this Oath of Manifestation every day for months. And she discovered that she called in “unexpected” good. unexpected money and unexpected love.
Try it for yourself.
Do let me know if you get some unexpected results yourself.
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