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The Trauma of Being Falsely Accused
My Journey Through False Allegations and Post-Separation Abuse Being falsely accused can shatter a person’s sense of self, creating waves of emotional, mental, and even physical trauma that linger for years. I know this all too well. As an author who dared to share...
Systemic Failures in the Justice System in Spain.
So today, my thoughts were:- Failures in the Justice System. Legal intimidation and litigation abuses post-separation. The unlevel playing field and power imbalances. Are these power imbalances an indication of something more sinister going on? A high-conflict...
Learning New Skills – My daughter helps me out.
This is a chapter from Deceptions Illussions Embroidered With Truth. My daughter helps me out. After my attempts to negotiate with the mediation company had failed, I was juggling my finances and looking for opportunities to start earning again. I was watching videos...
Moving The Goalposts Again
This is a chapter from my next book. I am continuing the story of my post-separation experience to document the situation. Please note that all names have been changed. The ex had been moving the goalposts so many times already. I felt like a puppet on a string. He...
Silencing Survivors Through Defamation Lawsuits
Abusive Litigations In recent years, abusive litigation has become a common tool used by powerful individuals to silence those who dare to speak out on matters of public concern, particularly in cases involving abuse, sexual violence, and defamation. This tactic is...
Victims Waiving Rights To Anonymity
INTRODUCTION In today’s article, I’m looking at the ongoing public Judicial case in France that involves Dominique Pélicot, who used the drug lorazepam to incapacitate his wife, Gisèle, allowing him and others to sexually assault her over a prolonged period. My focus...
Maximum Damage. Maximum Hurt.
“Narcissistic Discard” I’m still recovering from getting my heart smashed to bits five years ago when the ex decided to terminate our relationship after eleven years. I saw this quote a couple of days ago. It spoke to me.What do you think this quote is all about? A)...
Trauma Bonding in an Abusive Relationship.
Understanding Toxic Trust Trauma bonding is a psychological phenomenon where an abused person forms a deep, emotional attachment to their abuser. This bond is forged through cycles of abuse and intermittent kindness. This leaves the victim confused, emotionally...
Understanding Future Faking: A Narcissist’s Tactic
In the complex world of narcissistic abuse, one tactic stands out for its insidiousness and emotional devastation: future faking. This term may be unfamiliar to some, but the impact is all too real for those who have experienced it. Future faking is a manipulative...
Women Are Waking Up To Injustice:
As Justice Systems Are Failing Women One woman replied to me, saying it is a worldwide tragedy. Here are some causes that women and men are passionate about changing. Domestic violence: Pushing for stricter laws, increased protection for survivors, and improved...
A Free 5-Day Virtual Event
Uncovering "Master Your Message" BTI (Life Coaching Certification) Why did I want to take the time to listen to this event?Firstly, because I have paid to attend live events from BTI, I attended The Dream Builder Event in 2020 and 2021, a live virtual event hosted by...
8 Strategies for Surviving Post-Separation Narcissistic Abuse
They Can't Control You Anymore Leaving an emotionally abusive narcissistic partner is a courageous step towards reclaiming your life and well-being. On the other hand, if your relationship has ended abruptly with no prior warning, known as a narcissistic discard then...
10 Ways Victims of Gender-Based Violence Are Blamed or Shamed
Gender-Based Violence. Providing Some Examples of How Women Are Failed By Society And The Justice System. Questioning Their Actions: Victims are often asked why they didn’t leave the abusive relationship sooner. Implying they had control over the situation and chose...
Vision or Dream Boards – Do they work?
In a world where manifestation and visualisation techniques are as popular as a cheese toasty, there’s one tool that stands out among the rest, the vision board, also known as a dream board. It’s the classic DIY project for those seeking to manifest their dreams and...
Emotional Abuse Validation
I asked AI to validate my experience of emotional abuse. Here are the results. Including my take and experiences. Prompt 1: Describe how a woman might feel when she is betrayed by a partner after a long-term relationship is terminated abruptly. When he confesses for...