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Moving The Goalposts Again

Moving The Goalposts Again

This is a chapter from my next book. I am continuing the story of my post-separation experience to document the situation. Please note that all names have been changed.   The ex had been moving the goalposts so many times already. I felt like a puppet on a string. He...

Silencing Survivors Through Defamation Lawsuits

Silencing Survivors Through Defamation Lawsuits

Abusive Litigations In recent years, abusive litigation has become a common tool used by powerful individuals to silence those who dare to speak out on matters of public concern, particularly in cases involving abuse, sexual violence, and defamation. This tactic is...

Victims Waiving Rights To Anonymity

Victims Waiving Rights To Anonymity

INTRODUCTION In today’s article, I’m looking at the ongoing public Judicial case in France that involves Dominique Pélicot, who used the drug lorazepam to incapacitate his wife, Gisèle, allowing him and others to sexually assault her over a prolonged period. My focus...

Maximum Damage. Maximum Hurt.

Maximum Damage. Maximum Hurt.

“Narcissistic Discard” I’m still recovering from getting my heart smashed to bits five years ago when the ex decided to terminate our relationship after eleven years. I saw this quote a couple of days ago. It spoke to me.What do you think this quote is all about? A)...

Trauma Bonding in an Abusive Relationship.

Trauma Bonding in an Abusive Relationship.

Understanding Toxic Trust Trauma bonding is a psychological phenomenon where an abused person forms a deep, emotional attachment to their abuser. This bond is forged through cycles of abuse and intermittent kindness. This leaves the victim confused, emotionally...

Understanding Future Faking: A Narcissist’s Tactic

Understanding Future Faking: A Narcissist’s Tactic

In the complex world of narcissistic abuse, one tactic stands out for its insidiousness and emotional devastation: future faking. This term may be unfamiliar to some, but the impact is all too real for those who have experienced it. Future faking is a manipulative...

Why I started to write my first book

How I got involved in writing a chapter for “Faces Of Mental Illness.” my experience of grief & anxiety the reason for writing my first book.

YOU ARE NOT WORTHY OF ME

YOU ARE NOT WORTHY OF ME - Poem by Robin Mitchell-Sandeen You are not worthy of my love. You are not worthy of my respect.  I can move on and forgive you, but I never will forget. To heal I must remind myself of who I used to be and of all that you have put me...

Napoleon Hill’s ‘A philosophy of success formula’

Early years. Napoleon Hill was born in 1883, he was born into poverty, when he was a young boy of just 10 years he lost his mother. His father remarried and Napoleon counts his stepmother as one of his sources of inspiration. By the time he was 13 years he started...

A Free 5-Day Virtual Event

Uncovering "Master Your Message" BTI (Life Coaching Certification) Why did I want to take the time to listen to this event?Firstly, because I have paid to attend live events from BTI, I attended The Dream Builder Event in 2020 and 2021, a live virtual event hosted by...

Teaching the law of attraction to others

Teaching the law of attraction to others There are many ways to teach others the effects of the law of attraction and why it is so important. Many people do not realise what this great technique has to offer and how important it is to use in almost any type of...

Manifesting Through The Power of Synopsis

Synopsis or Thought Process For some people, a synopsis or thought process is something they have tried and swear by its positive contributions.  The manifestation is apparent through the mental and physical realms and is very convincing to the...

Desire is the starting point for all achievement

Desire is the starting point. Do you remember as a child thinking about all the things you would like to do in your life without a thought to how they would happen but just knew they would somehow?Name One Thing You Desire... .. that more money...

Definite desires and the law of attraction

Law of attraction and your definite desires. The power of a definite desire, a passionate desire, to achieve anything is the first in step in manifestation. You see, desire is a powerful force which activates the Law Of Attraction. When you have desires in life...