Infidelity and Betrayal

Infidelity and Betrayal

A memory from January 2018. My partner had just confessed his infidelity and betrayal on December 27th. He was apparently entitled to carry on an affair with another woman he had started seeing again in the UK. He called her “his Wednesday girl” because...
Hidden Emotional Abuse

Hidden Emotional Abuse

People do not understand #coercivecontrol it is power and control, manipulation and mind games, emotional and psychological abuse. It is what I term hidden emotional abuse. Often the victim does not realise they have been in an emotionally abusive marriage or...
Letter To The Other Woman.

Letter To The Other Woman.

This is an extract from my first self-published book. Post Separation Abuse. Betrayal & Abandonment, What Type Of Man?In my book, I write “Letters to the Other Women” this is one of the letters I wrote to one of Philip’s ex-wives after she makes...
Nine Ways Narcissists Can Punish You

Nine Ways Narcissists Can Punish You

Punishment is a classic part of narcissistic relationships.  They punish you if they think you criticize them, they punish you if you express a need, they punish you if you question their inappropriate behaviour, and they punish you if you try to give them...
First Anniversary of Abrupt Discard

First Anniversary of Abrupt Discard

The 27th of August 2021 was the first anniversary of the abrupt termination of my 11-year relationship. A man, that I attracted into my life in 2009. On the evening of August 27th 2020, I remember that I talked about all of my past experiences, my family life, my...