by Loren Keeling | Nov 10, 2025 | Toxic Relationships
Why Your Ex’s Court Tactics are Post-Separation Abuse Post-separation Abuse in Family Court If you are a survivor of abuse in a relationship, the separation may feel like just the beginning of the battle—not the end. You went to the family court seeking...
by Loren Keeling | Nov 3, 2025 | Toxic Relationships
The Aftermath After five years of legal intimidation, litigation abuses and a situation of extreme emotional abuse and psychological harm. I want to revisit the betrayal, the emotional impact and look at a hypothetical scenario of Flipping the Script on Infidelity and...
by Loren Keeling | Oct 20, 2025 | Human Rights of Women
DVAM 2025 UK Serious Crimes Act and Spain 1/2004, comprehensive protection measures. As October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I thought I would look at UK and Spanish laws on violence against women. It has now been five years this month that I was advised by...
by Loren Keeling | Oct 13, 2025 | Healthy Relationships, Law of Attraction
Why Your Dream Partner Checklist Needs an Upgrade. The Law of Attraction is powerful. You’ve heard the advice: define what you want, write it down, visualise it, and you’ll attract it. I tried this myself back in 2009. I wrote out my list, starting with the...
by Loren Keeling | Oct 6, 2025 | Toxic Relationships
My lived experience. I now call the abrupt termination of the relationship a four-sentence discard speech. Here are the words he used to end a relationship that spanned eleven years. In fact he denied that we had a relationship. I now do not want to refer to it as a...
by Loren Keeling | Sep 29, 2025 | Human Rights of Women
The court hearing June 10th 2022, is the day of the verbal hearing in the Civil Court in Cartagena. I turn up at the court a little early. I’m wearing a long, blue, sleeveless silk dress with a long jacket to match. On entering the courthouse, there is police...
by Loren Keeling | Sep 19, 2025 | Mindset
Will you prepare yourself to achieve the impossible? If you keep thinking the same thoughts, keep demonstrating the same behaviours, keep living by the same emotions, your personal reality is going to stay exactly the same. But if you have new thoughts that lead to...
by Loren Keeling | Sep 18, 2025 | Mindset
Success. The word itself conjures images of achievement, fulfilment, and a life well-lived. But for many, it feels like a distant star, something to be chased endlessly without ever quite reaching it. What if I told you there’s a different way? A method that doesn’t...
by Loren Keeling | Aug 31, 2025 | Human Rights of Women
The use of precarious eviction ( desahucio por precario ) in Spain to evict a long-term unmarried partner, particularly when the woman was financially dependent, raises significant moral and ethical concerns, even if it may be legally permissible under certain...
by Loren Keeling | Aug 25, 2025 | Human Rights of Women
Gaps In The Laws Between Property Law and Gender Based Violence of Economic Abuse. How women are failed by the Justice System that discriminates against them and operates on misogyny and bias. Spanish Law and Psychological Abuse Ley Orgánica 1/2004, Spain’s...
