Moving The Goalposts Again
This is a chapter from my next book. I am continuing the story of my post-separation experience to document the situation. Please note that all names have been changed. The ex had been moving the goalposts so many times already. I felt like a puppet on a string. He...
Maximum Damage. Maximum Hurt.
“Narcissistic Discard” I’m still recovering from getting my heart smashed to bits five years ago when the ex decided to terminate our relationship after eleven years. I saw this quote a couple of days ago. It spoke to me. What do you think this quote is all about? A)...
Trauma Bonding in an Abusive Relationship.
Understanding Toxic Trust Trauma bonding is a psychological phenomenon where an abused person forms a deep, emotional attachment to their abuser. This bond is forged through cycles of abuse and intermittent kindness. This leaves the victim confused, emotionally...
Understanding Future Faking: A Narcissist’s Tactic
In the complex world of narcissistic abuse, one tactic stands out for its insidiousness and emotional devastation: future faking. This term may be unfamiliar to some, but the impact is all too real for those who have experienced it. Future faking is a manipulative...
8 Strategies for Surviving Post-Separation Narcissistic Abuse
They Can’t Control You Anymore Leaving an emotionally abusive narcissistic partner is a courageous step towards reclaiming your life and well-being. On the other hand, if your relationship has ended abruptly with no prior warning, known as a narcissistic discard...
10 Ways Victims of Gender-Based Violence Are Blamed or Shamed
Gender-Based Violence. Providing Some Examples of How Women Are Failed By Society And The Justice System. Questioning Their Actions: Victims are often asked why they didn’t leave the abusive relationship sooner. Implying they had control over the situation and chose...
Emotional Immaturity And Red Flags
Definition Of Emotional Immaturity Individuals who struggle to regulate their emotions in an age-appropriate way. Emotional immaturity can negatively affect relationships. People who lack maturity can overreact to certain situations and have problems staying in...
Abrupt Termination And Post-Separation Abuse
Emotional and psychological abuse is a pattern of behaviour IntroductionThis article covers the abrupt termination of a relationship looking at cause and effect between abuser and victim. Most relationships will end where both parties can move ahead and process the...
Revenge Versus Justice
Unraveling the Narrative of Victim Blaming and Silencing in Cases of Domestic Abuse Introduction In the realm of interpersonal conflicts and injustices, two powerful forces often come into play: revenge and justice. While revenge seeks to retaliate and punish, justice...
Will The Real Victim Please Stand Up?
How can professionals tell who is the real victim after a relationship with the Narcissist ends? Let me start by taking a quote from Dr Ramani. Quote.I believe all domestic abusers are narcissistic, without exception. The capacity to tell someone, I love you,...Domestic Abuse / Gender Violence
Understanding Intimate Partner Abuse. Today I am writing about a subject that many people do not usually read about until the headlines in the media declare another senseless loss of life. So today I am covering the definitions of gender violence and domestic abuse...Free Chapter
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