Moving The Goalposts Again

Moving The Goalposts Again

This is a chapter from my next book. I am continuing the story of my post-separation experience to document the situation. Please note that all names have been changed.   The ex had been moving the goalposts so many times already. I felt like a puppet on a string. He...

Domestic Abuse  / Gender Violence

Understanding Intimate Partner Abuse. Today I am writing about a subject that many people do not usually read about until the headlines in the media declare another senseless loss of life. So today I am covering the definitions of gender violence and domestic abuse...
Hidden Emotional Abuse

Hidden Emotional Abuse

People do not understand #coercivecontrol it is power and control, manipulation and mind games, emotional and psychological abuse. It is what I term hidden emotional abuse. Often the victim does not realise they have been in an emotionally abusive marriage or...